When a loved one or friend gets a life changing diagnosis, it is difficult to know just how to respond. Of course we want to be supportive, helpful and most of all encouraging. Do we call or send a card and maybe some flowers? It is hard not to feel uncomfortable and helpless. In fact, many friends and family do nothing , feeling helpless to impact the situation.
Here are the best 5 things you can do when a friend or family member is diagnosed.
1)Research shows us that people heal better when they have supportive friends and family around. Pick up the phone and say hello. You don’t have to talk about their illness. Just stay in touch. Talk about family, future events, and fond memories you share. You know the saying…Laughter is the best medicine.
2)Ask caregivers, spouses, or close family if there is anything that you can do to help. Medical treatment may require many trips to the hospital for outpatient treatments which can last hours. Offer to drive and sit with the friend or loved one to relieve a caregiver or family member. Bringing over a meal might also be helpful. Ask what kind of food would be appropriate for the family.
3) Invite your friend or loved one to parties, family reunions, dinners, etc. Treat the them as if they are well. They can always decline the invitation if they aren’t feeling up to it. Don’t assume they won’t want to come. Keep them close and involved with family and friends.
4) Undergoing medical treatment can have its own side effects. Dry and cracked lips and skin are very common. Dry mouth and metallic taste in the mouth may also incur. In addition, sensitivities to chemicals and fragrances may cause nausea. The best products for people undergoing treatment are all natural and unscented. Living Green Marketplace produces a beautiful gift box with all natural products to help with the side effects of medical treatment. The care box arrives as a gift called a “Wellness Care Box”. Each product is carefully researched to be natural and helpful to many of the side effects people experience in treatment and recovery. To order a Wellness Care Box go to www.WellnessCareBox.com
5) Stay positive! Your thoughts and wishes of wellness will touch your friend or loved one. Keep the faith so they will feel your strength and support.
